Anal sex is a sexual activity that is becoming increasingly popular among couples around the world. While it can be an incredibly enjoyable and intimate experience, it’s important to understand how to initiate anal sex safely. This article will provide tips on how to properly prepare for anal play, as well as ways to make the experience more pleasurable for both partners. With the right approach, anal sex can be a positively enjoyable experience for both partners.

Prepare: Before attempting any kind of anal sex play, it’s important to take the time to prepare both mentally and physically. This may include talking openly with your partner about your expectations, discussing any concerns you may have, and using plenty of lubrication. Anal douching may be necessary prior to beginning.

Lubricate: Proper lubrication is key to a safe and pleasurable anal experience. Make sure to use a water-soluble, condom-safe lubricant that is specifically designed for anal sex. It’s also important to re-apply the lubricant throughout the experience as needed. Applying plenty of lubricant to the anus before penetration is essential in order to reduce friction that could cause discomfort or even injury. Lubricants specifically designed for anal play are usually thicker than those used for traditional sexual activities, so be sure to use one that is specifically made for this purpose (reapply as needed).

Start slowly: When beginning anal sex, by using a finger or sex toy to slowly and gently stimulate the outer area of the anus. Have your partner insert a finger or two first [maybe three depending on their size] to create a comfortable level of penetration before moving on to other forms of genital play like a penis or toy. When you and your partner are both ready, proceed to penis-in-anus penetration at a pace that is comfortable for both of you. It is best to start slow and gradually work up to more intense stimulation.This will help the experience feel more natural and enjoyable for both parties involved. There is a likelihood that there will be some tearing around the anal area even if all of the necessary caution is taken.

Achieve an orgasm: It is easier for some individuals to relax the pelvic floor enough after an orgasm to receive entry into the anal sphincter or hole. Breathing calmly through the initial pass of these entry will ease the level of discomfort that you or your partner may feel. Again once penetration has occurred pause and communicate with your partner and when you both are ready continue slowly.

Communicate: As with any type of sexual activity, communication is key when it comes to initiating anal sex safely and pleasurably. Letting your partner know what feels good (or not) will ensure that they can adjust their technique accordingly.

In addition, it is important to pay attention to your body and to stop if anything feels uncomfortable. Pain can be a sign of damage, so take a break if needed.

Clean up: After anal sex, it is important to properly clean up in order to reduce the risk of infection. Use warm water and mild soap or an anal douching solution to rinse the anus and remove any remaining lubricant or bodily fluids.

Anal sex can be a pleasurable and intimate experience for couples, but it’s important to understand how to initiate it safely. By following the tips outlined above, you and your partner can have an enjoyable, safe experience with anal play.